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Three smart ways to lessen the impact of divorce on your children

On Behalf of | Mar 28, 2023 | Blog, Divorce

Divorce is sometimes the only option when a married couple in Tennessee can no longer make things work. While divorces are stressful enough, the stress ramps up when a divorcing couple has children together. Many parents wonder how to lessen divorce’s impact on their children during this time.

Keep children out of divorce-related discussions

Divorces cause parents to make lots of decisions about life going forward. These discussions can involve child support, alimony, custody arrangements and other issues. While asking for your children’s opinions can seem tempting, doing this during divorce can often cause unwanted stress. Children aren’t well-equipped to make decisions best left to adults.

Never badmouth the other parent in front of children

A divorce can cause lots of unwanted feelings. So, it’s understandable feel angry toward your former spouse. However, this isn’t something you want your children to know. Save the negative talk about your ex-spouse for dinner with your friends or lunch with a workplace colleague.

Wait before introducing a new love interest

An essential part of the post-divorce process involves dating. While you might not be ready for it now, you’ll eventually want to start dating again. But that doesn’t mean your children need to meet everyone you go on a date with. As one of these new relationships starts getting serious, you can introduce this person to your children.

Divorces aren’t easy on most people, especially children of divorced parents. But that doesn’t have to be the case in your divorce. As challenging as it might seem, working with your ex-spouse is the key to maintaining a positive post-divorce life for your children.